What to do when husband overseas wants a divorce out of no where?

ok so I"m not a guy... but you really shouldn't be asking this kind of question to people on the internet that don't know the first thing about you two. you'll get answers like the stupid guy above ragging on praying... oy. anyways... we don't know that you're the perfect wife. we don't if there were or weren't any signs that he wanted to leave you. we don't know why he doesn't want to come home. this is something you need to keep talking about with your therapist and slowly work through it. there's no easy answer for you. good luck and I pray that with whatever happens that it'll work out for you guys and you'll find your place in life.